Jan. 10th, 2006
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Jan. 10th, 2006 04:47 pmFrom the talented, and perfectly silly (and sillily perfect)
gordon_r_d.
learn something every day...
Jan. 10th, 2006 10:47 pmJust out of curiosity, I went nosing around to see if I could find any Quaker LJ communities and I found
quakers. Deep in the replies in this thread,
davetrow gave some cultural background for that old admonition to "Turn the other cheek":
So, if someone strikes your right cheek, then it must be a backhanded slap (i.e. an insult), because a Pharisee must use his right hand, to avoid the taboo. If, instead of slapping the person back, you present your left cheek, you force the attacker to break a taboo, acknowledge your equality or simply stop hitting you. In one simple act, the balance of power is shifted.
Kind of puts a whole different spin on this classic advice on non-violent response, doesn't it?
I have much more respect for that saying now...
- For the Pharisees, the left hand was considered unclean and it was taboo to use it.
- The backhanded slap was always intended as an insult -- given to someone who is considered inferior.
- The foreslap (slapping with the palm of the hand) was reserved for equals.
So, if someone strikes your right cheek, then it must be a backhanded slap (i.e. an insult), because a Pharisee must use his right hand, to avoid the taboo. If, instead of slapping the person back, you present your left cheek, you force the attacker to break a taboo, acknowledge your equality or simply stop hitting you. In one simple act, the balance of power is shifted.
Kind of puts a whole different spin on this classic advice on non-violent response, doesn't it?
I have much more respect for that saying now...