The day most recently past was my father's birthday; he would have been 83.

So, in his honor, I'm reposting this memory of him (originally posted 2010-02-02, but it was behind a cut, in a list of randomness):

[Quote] My father's favorite moral directive was Immanual Kant's Categoracal Imperative. He said it was like Christianity's Golden Rule, but more evolved. He would quote his own paraphrase of the first formulation of that throughout my life, thusly: "Do only what you'd like to see become universal."

Speeding through this red light, at this moment, might be a good thing for you, now, but if everyone did that, all Hell would break lose. So don't do it.

He said it was more evolved than the Golden Rule, because the Golden Rule (Do unto others as you wish them to do unto you.) is still focused on your own, perhaps selfish, desires, and limited perspective. But Kant's Categorical Imperitive takes it to the next dimension, and takes other people's lives into account, and asks you to think about further implications of your actions. [unquote]

I'm bothered ...

I'm bothered by how bothered I get, when my posts don't get replies.

I know I don't reply to more than a fraction of what I read, even if what I read makes me thinky or happy, or angry, or ...what;* because most of the time, my thinkiness or happiness, or anger can't be translated into words, at the moment.

I know, consciously, and rationally, that I can't hold my f'list to a different standard than I hold myself. But subconsciously, I do, anyway. And that conflict makes me feel childish and selfish, and I don't like it.

I wish I could just let go... you know?

Sorry, I just had to get that off my chest.

The next post you see here will have much fewer first person pronouns.

*And it does! People on my f'list are smart and funny and creative.